"What are your academic interests?"
"Career field you could see yourself in?"
"Have a major lined up by the end of sophomore year."
"Oh, Journalism, you must really love writing and the news."
"When are you opening your own bakery?"
"What's your passion?"
"What makes you happy?"
I wiped off my palms for the 10th time as my well-meaning temporary advisor guided me through the sign-up process. The entire day was devoted to getting transfers acclimated, and all around me I felt the vibe of uncertainty pulsing as we all tried to navigate our way around a new system. Every time I turned a corner in the Union, I felt more than saw the memory ghosts intent upon making the day harder than it already had it to be. My hands shook and I dropped a lot of things. I came out with too many papers and enough anxiety to fill a five-gallon bucket.